Someone like him:
When you grow up and have this fantasy of a Fairy Tale Prince Charming or Perfect Romantic Comedy Leading Man, you're shaken up at the idea neither of them exist. At least not in the format every little girl thinks of; these men in reality look perfect because of how they make the princess feel. How he makes her a better human being, how he challenges her, or just looks at her in all the imperfections. He doesn't have to slay, fight, or protect every threat. The Princess can defend herself too. Prince Charming needs to not be afraid of the Princess in her perfect or imperfect form, slaying one million dragons with one look that says "She's mine. There is no one better for me."
Prince Charming can have quite a few impostures one for example A Cruel Man. This man has all the aspects of Prince Charming, he fills you with promises, sweet notes, and loving intentions. Besides the fact that A Cruel Man does not have a white horse, shiny armor or roses; he does posess integrity, passion, and self worth. To be labeled as cruel one may think evil vilian but it's quite the opposite, this man is cruel because he is the real version of everything you never thought existed.
A Cruel Man is reality and Prince Charming is an image.
A man is just a man, not one man is perfect, cruel, or charming that's the beauty in all of them. A man has deep flaws, heartbreaks, and cherishingly twisted souls. Each man sees this image of perfection they must somehow live up too, we tend to envision them as our favorite leading movie men. The hype alone is unfair, comments like "God! I would love to have Ryan Gossling as my boyfriend." That must sting a little. Bob Marley. He pin points exactly what a man actually can give.
"He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give."
A Cruel Man or Prince Charming?
How about both.
